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Why some wouldnt wanna be married?
dats bcoz once u're married u'll be bonded wit dat partner of urs for life.u guys got to like love each other till death do u both part.n if dat dusnt happen, or smthg goes wrong, alotta shit is gonna go piling up n eventually drop on ya!
one of the shit dat is most likely to happen is either u or ur partner liking sumone else.n dat sux!it'll lead to affairs den cheating, lies n finally sex....all diz is under da category...ADULTERY.
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. "Wow,
this girl in my office is a real looker. I'm crazy about her because
she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my
spouse is not."
Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more
charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have
greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and
pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did. Because no
wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 90% of what
you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks
for the missing 10%.
Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself
drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laughter. Or because your wife
is a homebody in slippers and pyjamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you
may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your
office wit sexy smooth legs equipped below dat short skirt, wit boobs so finely sculptured by god's fullest concentration.
Or because your partner is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when
you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host. But
wait!
That's only 10% of what you don't have. Don't throw away the 90% that
you already have! Add to your spouse's 90% the 100% that represents all the
years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered
together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple.The
many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories
that you've accumulated as lovers.
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But
faithfulness happens when you start appreciatin for what you already
have.
But I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about life!
About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.
Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks
through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what u're missing?
"They have got more leg room! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and
they've got personal videos!" I guarantee you'll be miserable for the
entire trip!
The main message:
If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, whoever u're with..........is
first class!
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